you are the only one who knows what you want………they can only infer from your behaviour,language, actions etc…………never forget that………..everybody forms a model of other’s mind and advice according to that………and you don’t like to be modeled……..so other’s advice is less and less relevant to you……………..

your original strategy on travian test server was working fine…….you listened to others on the administered server, which led to lots of probs……another lesson for life…..don’t overrule your strategy from other people’s advice………….never do it……